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Like a Phoenix We Rise

My heart is truly breaking as I read the posts and headlines about Sonoma County, California and all of the ravenous fires that have been tormenting the land and burning down homes, hospitals and businesses with insatiable flames. I find myself praying this morning from an all too familiar place – one of complete compassion and understanding of the intense and …

Why separate bank accounts?

It’s not breaking news that money is one of the biggest causes of marital strife. An article by author Ron Leiber of the New York Times in 2009 says the odds of a marriage ending in divorce due to finances is approximately 45 percent. We counsel married couples all the time and after years of doing our own research, we’ve come to …

The US Postman Saved My Life

I was once asked, “how do you know that there’s a living God?” My answer was that when you’ve experienced the living God, you know… as you know… as you know that He is real. He is evident and present. I remember describing to this young man an incident that I had in 1994. I was engaged to my now …

Words Matter

What’s it like to be married to Montell Jordan? How did you meet Montell? Do you listen to “This is How We Do It?” all the time? These are just a few of the usual questions that come along when people find out the “Jordan” at the end of my name is because I’m married to Montell. After twenty years …

Tom Cruise Lied

In light of the recent Ashley Madison news revealing 32 million people have been outed regarding their participation on an extramarital affair site, the idea and sanctity of marriage continues to be caught up in a whirlwind. Hackers acquired secret personal profile information of married men and women who were actively participating in—or considering—an affair, held that information for ransom, …